This story line is not uncommon in real life with Ray. I have a number of women in my close circle of friends who are geeks to the core. I mean the whole enchilada geek 101. I also have some friends who are married to geeks to the core. Men who make Luke Skywalker look like a pansy. I adore all of them and their goof ball husbands so I wanted to showcase some of their delightfully beautiful ways so that we can celebrate the ridiculous awesomeness that is geekery. I think that you will find that geeks really do have more fun.
Before we can dive deep in to the land of my friends, I have to embarrass my sisters first. It goes without being said that the three of us (and our ruffian brother) were raised in a thoroughly geeky home. We HEART Star Wars and Star Trek and Super Man (Reeve and Cain) and have WAY too many Rocky movies in our stewardship. Thus, I blow their cover first. I won't reveal which sister it is, but if you know us, you'll probably figure it out.
Sister #2 is married and when I asked her to share some of her quirky geekdoms, she sent me a scripted story that she and her husband had drafted. I laughed and laughed. I will share a small excerpt for your reading pleasure. They crack me up. A LOT. She is also a geek about drinks that are blue, Rocky movies and talking in dog voice (like if her dog could talk, what would he say). Anyway.....
MOVIE DATE NIGHT AT HOME
Husband: What kind of movie are you in the mood for?
Sister: I don't know, either a comedy or action film.
[Husband flips through Netflix, makes about 30 suggestions...]
Sister: Let's watch a documentary.
We watch a documentary.
Every. Single. Time.
Sister #3 is a beautiful Whovian. She puts us all to SHAME with her knowledge of Doctor Who. In spite of raising her children with Star Trek and Star Wars, our mother just can't quite grasp the doctor and daleks and flying police boxes. Odd? Probably? Relevant? Doubtful. Sister #3 is also a fan of the hipster lifestyle and digs the dudes with beards. She may have contracted that by osmosis from her older sister, but I'll never tell.....and neither will she. And no we don't have a board on Pinterest dedicated to it. No, we don't.....
In fairness to roasting my sisters, I will share my ultimate geeky move. One of my absolute favorite movies is Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home. We watched it a LOT when I was growing up and it made me so happy that they saved the humpback whales named George and Gracie. When I graduated from college I was dirt poor and needed a car. My parents were kind enough to buy my first car and it was a 1990 gray Buick Century. It was butt ugly and barely ran, but it was mine. It was also rusted something fierce and from day one I thought it looked like a beached whale. So......I named her Gracie. After the whale. In Star Trek IV. Gracie didn't make the move with me to Utah and I made my parents promise that they would take good care of her until she died and would give her a proper send-off. She was a car. The whale named Gracie was fictional. I am a geek. Deal with it.
When I posed the question "what makes you feel beautiful and geeky all at the same time?" to my social media friends and fans, I received some awesome answers. Check these out:
J: "Even though my eyes glaze over after 30 seconds of computer speak from my hubby....It's hot to hear a man talk about something more than football and hunting."
J: "Secretly wearing Wonder Woman socks on the day I have my department meeting at work (all men except me) and knowing I could totally take them in a fight"
K: "I read text books (science) when I have/had down time. I teach my girls science jokes and tell them science answers to little kid questions... I have to make my self not answer people when they are talking about why things work the way they do... I finally understand why people didn't like me when I was in hs I was such a know it all... I didn't mean it... I just didn't know how to not answer... yep I'm geek fits me."
A: "I've been known to have a very random memory which pops up with strange facts/tidbits that are completely off topic. Does that qualify as geeky?"
A: "The other day husband's old roommate came over and was taken back by how much I knew Star Wars. He was super freaked out that I got super excited too and husband just sat back smiled and said, "And yes, that's the woman I married. She's just that cool."
S: "Two words: Benedict Cumberbatch."
K: "Having my living room completely surrounded by comic books, posters and pop figures instead of grown up decor."
I received a lot more, but I had to cut them short in the interest of length of this post. Thank you thank you to everyone who chimed in. You are all delightfully weird and I LOVE YOU!
A couple of final points to share from the book before I wrap up. One of the things that I found to be so incredible was the amount of love and support Trevor's friends had for each other and how they instantly LOVED Jen because Trevor loved her. They didn't care that she looked scary on the outside because they saw her worth from the inside. It shocked her that they would love her in spite of her scary exterior and it shocked them that she would love them even though they were the school geeks. That's how life is, my lovelies. If we will love people for what's on the INSIDE, we will quickly find that their outsides do NOT matter. I read an article just this evening about a local trans-gender woman who took her own life because she felt no value in her own skin due to bullying and public shaming for her choice in sexual preference. That is absolutely tragic. We ALL have worth no matter our circumstances and preferences, whatever they may be. We are all a little weird and we all struggle, but God intended it to be that way. That makes life interesting. I hope that you will take time to appreciate people for their quirks, imperfections and geekery because that's where the beauty lies because that's what makes us different.
The moral of the story: Flying your geek flag will never go out of style so wave it with pride.
Until next time, my lovelies!